Monday, August 11, 2008

Boss Stewie Gives Bad Advice

A friend of mine just asked me a question
"If you are given a choice to go back to Malaysia and achieve your dream... or stay in london with the girl you love... but just have a very ordinary life... which one would you choose?"

And my answer to him was

"Go back to Malaysia and achieve your dream cuz your dream... nobody can take that away from you. But the girl of your dreams, somebody can and somebody eventually may."

When I told Wen-Qi she scolded me and told me to stop giving people wrong advice!

wenqi says: (12:02:28 AM)
u just pushed him away from his girl wtf

wenqi says: (12:02:46 AM)
why u liddat wan

Aww come on.

Do the poll on my sidebar and tell me if you think I gave my friend bad advice.

33 comments:

KY said...

I voted YES! lol

Genova said...

correct advice.

Falcon said...

I agree with you boss...a gal will only stay with a succesful guy whom she knows she has a future with..if you stay back and becoming nothing....she will leave you eventualy

Terence Lee said...

That's a great advice boss!

I have lost a lot in the past because I chose the other option...

Pursue your dreams people !

pinkpau said...

why cant you bring the girl with you T_____T

Wen-Qi said...

u didn't tell the whole story! hmph!

actually i said since he loves the girl, stay with her and lead a HAPPY and ordinary(maybe) life. then, try to somewhat achieve his dreams there and he'll have his girl there to support him!

or well.. actually he can also bring the girl with him like limsuann said.

§oŁЇtǺ®ÿ ®o§ě said...

i think you made sense. Love would change as much as ppl are oblivious to it. In most cases it does change..if you are lucky then..you're lucky...I say at this young age, dreams matter the most...If there is fate and indeed they are meant together..nothing would take it away from them anyway..kudos...

joshuaongys said...

yay KY i voted yes too.. HAHAHA

a said...

GIRLS really DO NOT understand!

The question here is "...a choice..." That means 1 choice only.

So, like that to answer the 'if' question, better go to achieve your dream.

So many dreams already 'not achieve' because of this confusion.

Boss Lepton said...

I agree with you boss

RealGunners said...

i believe most that thought that boss's advice is bad advice, will have a change of mind in a few years time.. when age finally kicks in =.=

Aaron Tan said...

you are damn right!

AnD said...

What use would it be if you gain the whole world and your love one is not there to share it with you? I agree with Wenqi's comment. Your advice is not bad, just practical.

whisky said...

Good advice.achieve your dreams before You can really settle down with the one you love.!~

Spectre said...

Love & Dream thingy always backtrack to most important practical need u want & of course the future!

Brenda Ang said...

I think it's a goooood advice!

alex said...

well, i guess it depends what your friend values most. i think even if he choose both, he'll end up in misery somehow.

edmund said...

Follow the dream and when he's successful...get the girl back...if he cant get the girl back...well...he still have his money to make him happy eventually

Kay said...

agreed!! =)

LET US CELEBRATE WITH LOLLIPOPS!

*throws a watermelon chupa chups at boss stewie*

-tAkEmOtO- said...

Good advice. But presented very badly. U said it as if the girl isn't serious with the relationship lo...

Oppotunity comes nought but once. Besides, if the girl and him are serious no matter how far they are, they'll make it work.

But best if they can make ends meet, like coming back together la!!

electronicfly said...

I voted no. Sorry la Sam, but I agree with Tim lo. The only one in the world who you can 100% trust, is yourself.

Jaywin said...

well boss,what is yours will be yours.what is not,just let go and let fate decide if shall meet again down the road.dream comes 1st.cant let anyone take it away

Amy said...

no, you gave the right advice. i have a friend who stayed in London for love too. You will only regret it in the future if you didn't pursue your dream and end up blaming the girl. For guys, the dream should be more important. =)

Jun said...

hmmm. it's seems to be one of the " if your mother and your wife drop into water, who will you save?" there's no right answer, but rather is what do you want the most.

ACCYEE said...

no lar not bad advice

liongteck said...

Haha, Terence, I was like you, I've lost a lot cause of choosing the other option. But hey, she left me anyway.
Forever doesn't what you people are thnking, it just mean "till the day I don't love or need you anymore".
Jun, I can answer your that question, save the mum 1st, then jump into river and die with my wife! ..hahaha...joking..
Btw, boss, nice advice

liongteck said...

correcting - Forever doesnt "like"
I missed the word "like"

A-The-Rian said...

no girls are worth compromising your dreams for. seriously. you can find your "dream girl" anywhere just keep your eyes peeled. plus the lovey dovey feeling is temporary. but Boss, i think you should've elaborated on your advice. Personally, i think that although we should work towards our dreams when we're still young but at the same time, it would seriously suck if you end up living and dying alone. so plan ahead. achieve your dream and don't be a dickhead when it comes to girls.

Freethinker said...

there's no right or wrong, it all depends situations and circumstances.

But i do agree. on the point that dreamgirl also can lari..

LazyBum said...

Depends on what d priority in life that person has...if it's da dream dat makes him 4 who he will be...go for your dreamz.

It's good to have a dream and aim for it and achieve it of course. Someone to look up to if you're successful. It's good to have a bf/husband that you can look up to and be proud of.

People comes and goes in our life. But still, don't forget love...hehehe

I voted 'no' ")

Winn said...

i told my frens and here are their replies:P


ET (R) says:
i will follow my dreams too

dreamzchylde says:
i wanted to say to stay w the girl of ur dreams


PS says:
of course london
PS says:
malaysia got wht dream??


LOL

Stella said...

I would follow my dreams. Love is overrated.

Stella said...

I would follow my dreams. Love is overrated.